Johnstown Relationships- Laws of Attraction!
What determines who we find attractive and perspective partners? Is it our first visual of someone who causes our heart to skip a beat? Does the external features matter more than what is on the inside? Do we define attraction by sex or lust?
These are the questions human beings have asked themselves since Adam and Eve. But what about attraction in our current society? Are people made for each other, similar to Adam and Eve? Men and women seek tirelessly for their life partner. Some believe in love at first sight, some look deeper for their mate. In our current time more people are going online for finding love.
I admit to seeking out the reasons people come together. I have given groups a checklist to help determine what they find important. The list contains 50 items ranging from looks, personal interests, and geographic location. This list has shown the wide differences between men and women. Women tend to look for stability and personality while men look for looks and commonality.
Please keep in mind that my list is not exclusive according to gender. Everyone has their own qualities they look for in a partner. Finding someone to spend your time with, hopefully forever, is the underlying factor in the Laws of Attraction.
Whether you base your decision on external features or on more internal features, attraction is the glue. Meaning without some level of attraction a true relationship will not develop. I do believe that we tend to look for external factors more now than in the past. It is a shame that love has taken a back seat to `I like what I see’.
What is considered attractive now can easily be found on the cover of magazines, entertainment television, and pictures found on our profiles online. I simply ask people to consider everything when choosing a partner. This might seem daunting at first. However, taking into consideration both internal and external features, will enhance the attraction to your chosen mate.
I am going to give my readers a homework assignment. If you are single looking for a partner take some time and write down what you find attractive. If you have someone in your life, make the same list of attraction, hopefully your partner will fit those qualities. I hope your assignments turn out positively. The reason for making an attraction list is to keep your relationships grounded. I wish you luck and good fortune in your love relationships.
REMEMBER TO LAUGH OFTEN AND HUG THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE! Please contact me via email with questions or stories of your own relationships. Let me know how your attraction list turns out. You can e-mail me at email@example.com.