Get Wet in Denver (in more than one way)!
Before we get started, remember, swinging is not for everyone. When you, as a couple decide to explore sexual alternatives, set rules, discuss concerns and ensure all partners are healthy and secure. Don’t use sexual extremes as an end all, last resort option.
With that being said, I recently had the pleasure of visiting Denver’s and perhaps the West Coast’s best, membership only, private Swingers Club. The brains behind the business gave me a tour on Ladies’ Night and then spent the evening answering all my questions and listening to me ramble about my sex positive approach and my own experiences exploring the sexual underworld.
For the sake of privacy, and since swinging is still unacceptable to many, I will leave the name of the establishment out of my review, along with the names of those willing to talk with me the night of my visit. (However, if you are interested in discovering more about it, any Google search will certainly make it an easy find.)
Before jumping into the details I am sure many of you are dying to know, namely what really goes on inside a swingers club, I must first mention the fantastic, secluded new location, the beautiful almost rustic, castle like clubhouse and the amazing grounds complete with the biggest outdoor foam making machines I have ever encountered. Driving up to the club house leaves you feeling like you’ve just arrived at a Colorado Mountain Resort. The parking lot the night I visited was scattered with Mercedes, Bimmers, Land Rovers and the like. Simply put, even before setting off to the grand entry, the place looks and feels exclusive and high end. (Like the kind of place you’d want to visit if you were entertaining the idea of random sex with random people.)
This membership only club has moved mountains. Or at least it has relocated and gone from two different mountain hide-a-ways, to an urban get-a-way to a suburban secret. Ok not really a secret. I stopped at a local fire station when I thought I was lost, when on stumbled on expressing my destination, they immediatelhy all pointed across the way and in unison said, “It’s over there!!” with big smiles! This membership only club is a diamond, not in the rough, but a gem in perfected form. Practice makes perfect. This club is the top of the top; the best of the best in Denver in terms of Adult membership only clubs, and arguably the best in the Western U.S. The place is clean, organized, accommodating and informative. Whether you are a newbie, or well versed, this club is a Denver destination not to be missed.
Couples are welcome to join and singles are admitted with discretion. The best part is the welcoming, pressure –free environment. I guarantee a visit will leave you breathless. There is nothing better than being around open minded, accepting, consenting adults. The atmosphere is free from pressure and you can play, join or watch, as long as you follow the rules (they are explained in detail prior to your entrance into the club).For those visitors not ready to head to the numerous rooms in the basement, there are two pool tables, a huge dance floor, a shuffle board, and grand bar all contained within a massive socializing area. These options provide the choice to converse, get to know people or skip the niceties, and jump right in!
For those into libations, this establishment is BYOB. Bring your own bottle. The bartender will add your membership number to it and serve you throughout the night. Put please remember to tip! The staff consists solely of member volunteers. Furthermore, as a business, they are self governed by their own members and reserve the right to revoke or denie membership at any time (so behave people!).
Now I know many of you want to hear about the crowd and you may be wondering “are there attractive people? are the members hot?” Simply put, yes, maybe, and no. Attraction is subjective. The crowd on my visit was in general, relatively attractive, fit, flirty and seemingly educated and approachable. The age range was mixed. People ranged in age from early twenty something’s to late forties, maybe some older. Truth be told, I wasn’t allowed to visit the basement rooms, but I was asked to ‘come on down’ by a couple I met there during my visit. Did I go? The world may never know!