Yeah we all want to be that popular girl in school, but what does that really get you?
A load of problems it is. Lol (Laugh out loud)
Some say it’s the best thing, honestly it’s not. Being popular comes with a lot of consequences. Like everyone knowing your name so they can accuse you of anything or add your name into rumors. Sometimes it means having friends that are just there to use you.
Why would they want to do that?
Honestly, who knows! That’s why you need to pick and choose your friends (real friends). Learn that everyone is not your friend. Learn that some people just stick beside you because they are trying to accomplish their own goals by using you. People have mischievous ways of letting you think that they’re your friend. Some will manipulate you until you notice what is happening. That can be a very long time. Once you do notice, who says they will not try again. So please be aware of situations like this.
Friends are like condoms, they protect you when things get hard. If you have someone surrounding you that are not capable of doing this then just keep them as an associate. Cause that my darling is not a true friend.
What makes someone a true friend?
A true friend is someone who will have your back no matter what. Pick you up when you fall and help you laugh it off. A true friend is not someone who will turn their back on you. Now you may have those who try to play the role like they are down to ride, but just feeding you lies.
How can you tell if their just putting on an act?
Ask them questions about you and see how fast they react. If they reply fast in a hurry with no problem, you may have a friend. If they reply slow and start to look around, that my child is the clown.
So what you can count your friends (real friends) on one hand. That’s a good thing. At least you know that they aren’t there just to use you, smile in your face and then talk behind your back, and they will actually have your back.
Find yourself a true friend or true friends and don’t worry about all the popularity, just worry about you, yourself and your humanity.